I think I’m hitting a wall that many freelancers face, especially those working with automation tools.
I’ve gotten pretty good with the technical side of things. I can work with tools like Zapier, Make, and some custom Python scripts to automate almost anything clients need. But here’s the problem - I’m not getting the clients I want. And I don’t think it’s because I lack technical knowledge.
The real issue seems to be that I don’t understand people well enough. I’m doing cold outreach, building systems, sending tons of emails, but nothing sticks. I have all these powerful tools but I’m missing the human element. I don’t really know who my ideal customers are, what keeps them up at night, or how they actually think about their problems.
My instinct tells me I should stop pitching and start having real conversations. Maybe call up business owners I know and just chat about their challenges. Not trying to sell anything, just learning what their world looks like.
I think what I’m missing is deeper industry knowledge. Take Facebook ad agencies for example - the good ones don’t just know how to set up campaigns. They understand market psychology, creative trends, customer behavior patterns. That’s the kind of depth I don’t have yet.
I’m 21 so I know I’m still learning. But working for someone else’s agency isn’t teaching me how to build these relationships from the ground up either.
I’m also probably too impatient. Looking at realistic timelines:
- Cold email campaigns need about 2 weeks to show results
- Building community presence takes at least 3 months
- Paid ads work but need upfront budget
- Upwork gives fastest feedback in around 3 days
Maybe I should commit to this approach:
- Spend 3 days doing focused Upwork outreach
- Run consistent cold email for 2 weeks straight
- Spend 3 months actively participating in the right online communities
Then see if I start getting some validation.
Right now my outreach feels too generic. I’m trying to sell project management automation without really understanding project managers. I’m pitching marketing solutions without living in that space.
How can I fix this approach and start building real connections?